Becoming Your Best, with Jenny Lytle, RN

Episode Description
Self-care seems to be in the lime light right now, but usually when people talk about it they mention bubble baths, pedicures or facials and that can be self-care, but it isn’t the only way to do it.  Jenny Lytle is the host of this week’s podcast called Becoming Your Best, where she dives into what self-care really is and what it’s not.
 
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More About Becoming Your Best

Jenny describes her show like this: Self care isn’t selfish. It’s actually the way to make sure you can continue to show up as your best self and care for all of those people you love to help. The length of each episode varies. The solo episodes are between five and 15 minutes long, and the interview episodes are between 45 minutes and an hour long. The series is ongoing with new episodes available on Mondays. 

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Introduction to Jenny and Becoming Your Best

I’m Jenny Lightle and I am a registered nurse and I live in Indiana. I have been a nurse for 28 years this month. And most of that has been in hospice and end of life care. And then I’ve kind of transitioned into a stress relief self care coach just because of some things that happened with me personally, and I discovered that I really love working with women and caregivers to help them become the best versions of themselves. 

How Becoming Your Best Got Started

I started my podcast really kind of on a whim. I knew that it was something that I wanted to do. I had my coaching practice, but I just love talking with people and, you know, and kind of relating to people one on one. And a lot of the clients that I work with, the women that I’m speaking to, are busy.

And so having an option that, you know, they can listen to me, maybe, you know, pick up some tips and encouragement while they’re going about their day. I felt like that was a good way to be able to reach out and connect with more women. 

What to Expect From Becoming Your Best

 I want people to get encouragement and hope from time to time, maybe a laugh and just come away with some, some practical tips for, you know, for de-stressing or for being able to fit self care into their busy lives.

Because I think there’s a lot of misconceptions about self care that it has to be really, you know, really involved or really expensive or that it’s selfish. And so just trying to trying to kind of get rid of those thoughts one episode at a time. 

The Vibe of Becoming Your Best

Very conversational, laid back. I, you know, sometimes I’m a little more serious depending on the topic, but overall, I just want it to feel like it’s me and the listener having a conversation. 

Jenny’s Favorite Episode

I would say that my one about, I have one that’s about riding the waves of grief. And I, you know, I mean, part of it is I’ve been in, you know, hospice care for a long time, so I’ve dealt a lot with grief and loss, but I also lost my mom fairly suddenly four years ago, and I was really unprepared, even though I have a lot of grief and death experience, I didn’t have a lot of that personally and so I was, I was surprised. I was surprised at the way that it just comes out of nowhere and can knock you down even when you think everything is going along fine. And so I think that’s probably one of my favorites. And if I’ve got another one, probably my New Years’ episode, and I can’t remember what it’s called, but basically it was about, kind of setting yourself up for a great year. 

Becoming Your Best and Little Ears

So I have just started having guests on my podcast. Before that, it’s just been me and I keep all of my episodes short because, well, I don’t have a real long attention span, , and I know a lot of people, other people don’t either.  And so, yes, as of right now, they do. And my plan is if that changes to make sure to you know, to say that up front, to have that in the show notes and also to say that at the beginning of the episode because I know that’s, that’s an issue for some of us. And I don’t want to I don’t want anybody to be surprised

Because I am going to, you know, I’m going to have some people on talking about, you know, some specific to women’s health issues and, I mean, that’s kind of, up to you what’s your what’s your kids listen to. But I just don’t want anybody to be taken by surprise.

Becoming Your Best Guide

You know, if there’s anything that I can do that, you know, that would be helpful to women, you know, if you’re feeling stressed out, I am more than happy to, you know, jump on a call with you.

I have a guide that I just finished up yesterday that is a Seven Days to Less Stress Guide, and you can download it on my website and it’s jennylightle.com/guide. And it’s going to give you practical tips and kind of walk you through how to, how to fit in some stress relief and some self-care, even if you don’t have any time or energy.

Where to Find Becoming Your Best

I’m on social media. Jenny Lightle for the most part Jenny Lightle, RN on Instagram. And I’ve got a free Facebook community that is the becoming your best community. And so, you know, feel free to send me a friend request or pop in there. It’s a, it’s just a nice supportive community of women just all trying to kind of figure things out together. And there’s a few men in there, but mostly, mostly women who are, you know, just there to support and encourage each other on this journey.

Final Thoughts on Becoming Your Best

I work with, women primarily, and there’s a few men, but primarily I work with women and caregivers.  And so, you know, my version of caregivers is kind of broad, you know, so some of that may be other people in, you know, in healthcare. And, but I, I also believe that, you know, there’s parents and you’re caring for little people. And, you know, and lay caregivers who are maybe taking care of a loved one with a, you know, with an extended illness at home.

And so I think that, you know, that whole caregiver thing really applies to, applies to a lot of us, especially as women we care for lots of people.

One last thing, self care isn’t selfish. And actually it’s the way that we can continue to show up for those people that we care about. And so, you know, it’s that whole thing about putting your oxygen mask on first and you know, we have to do that so that we’re able to care for others..

Final Thoughts on Becoming Your Best

I work with, women primarily, and there’s a few men, but primarily I work with women and caregivers.  And so, you know, my version of caregivers is kind of broad, you know, so some of that may be other people in, you know, in healthcare. And, but I, I also believe that, you know, there’s parents and you’re caring for little people. And, you know, and lay caregivers who are maybe taking care of a loved one with a, you know, with an extended illness at home.

And so I think that, you know, that whole caregiver thing really applies to, applies to a lot of us, especially as women we care for lots of people.

One last thing, self care isn’t selfish. And actually it’s the way that we can continue to show up for those people that we care about. And so, you know, it’s that whole thing about putting your oxygen mask on first and you know, we have to do that so that we’re able to care for others..